am i getting played by this girl?
So I met a stripper awhile ago and we started talking, she also told me her “real” name, her age, etc…I will explain the quotations after. She told me somewhat about her personal life and we began to get to know each other better and eventually I got her number. We went out for a date but half way through two of her friends coincidentally showed up, but it was good overall and her friends approved of me. I suggested we hang out again and she said yeah just text me next week. I eventually did and she said she couldn’t go out this week but she will be back next week and said “are you gonna be around.” I said yeah next week works. Here is where the twist comes into play, I was at my job doing a training course I work at a fitness center. And as I am coming down the stairs she is there with her friend and we talk she says she is going to play badminton I was going to play basketball. As I was going to get a ball I had to check this drawer for the key to the equipment I noticed a license in there and it looked like her so I glanced at it and the name she had told me and said is her real name was not on her license and same with her age it was also different. Awhile ago though when she told me her real name I asked what her real facebook name was, she said she has deleted it. But after finding out her name i checked facebook and there she was. Now what is puzzling me is why would she lie about all of this and still want to continue to meet up with me? Could it be she just told me lies in the start because of protection wise seeing as how she is a stripper and all. Then after we got to know each other she grew interest? What do you guys think?
Ramesh Klinkert answers:
So far, it’s a little suspicious.
Though it looks like she’s not using you for $$, yet, maybe.
If you’re really interested in her, take it slow and like the advice above, DON”T BE AN ATM.
Am I being a sucker for this girl?
So I met dancer..exotic dancer awhile ago and we started talking, she also told me her “real” name, her age, etc…I will explain the quotations after. She told me somewhat about her personal life and we began to get to know each other better and eventually I got her number. We went out for a date but half way through two of her friends coincidentally showed up, but it was good overall and her friends approved of me. I suggested we hang out again and she said yeah just text me next week. I eventually did and she said she couldn’t go out this week but she will be back next week and said “are you gonna be around.” I said yeah next week works. Here is where the twist comes into play, I was at my job doing a training course I work at a fitness center. And as I am coming down the stairs she is there with her friend and we talk she says she is going to play badminton I was going to play basketball. As I was going to get a ball I had to check this drawer for the key to the equipment I noticed a license in there and it looked like her so I glanced at it and the name she had told me and said is her real name was not on her license and same with her age it was also different. Awhile ago though when she told me her real name I asked what her real facebook name was, she said she has deleted it. But after finding out her name i checked facebook and there she was. Now what is puzzling me is why would she lie about all of this and still want to continue to meet up with me? Could it be she just told me lies in the start because of protection wise seeing as how she is a stripper and all. Then after we got to know each other she grew interest? What do you guys think?
Ramesh Klinkert answers:
Wow…yeah she is probably just protecting herself. Honestly, these type of questions are best to be asked directly to the person involved. So..ask her if she is being honest and tell her how you stumbled upon her license.
Help me with my girl problems!?
Hey guys, Im 16 she’s 17. We talked a lot and she’s kinda flirty but realllly cute. I asked her out and she seemed really nervous but she said yes. However now she keeps avoiding me. I added her on Facebook, here’s our conversation. It takes her forever to respond by the way…
What times are you free tomorrow ?? .
heeeey! well tmrw afternoon i have to go to this meeting for senior beach week, my group is getting together to make the decisions and pay the moneeey lol. it will probably end around 6:30- 7ish so why dont u drop by at 7 and we can chill!:) .
That would be perfect but since I just got my license my mom doesn’t want me to drive home in the dark with drunk drivers since I live 40 minuets away… What about Saturday?? .
who is the drunk drivers?my friends wont b drunk!lbut okay so then maybe sunday b better lolll .
Haha no, when I drive home after I drop you off I would have to drive in the dark… and my mom think some drunk guy is going to kill me. .
OHH okaaayy lolll yea thats true!dangerouss .
Do you have any ideas? I was thinking Tysons where we could just chill, or if you wanted to do something more active… I don’t know if you like ice skating???
She doesnt respond to 2 text messages, a phone call, and when I chatted her on Facebook she immediately got off.
(Takes her 2 days so I figure she’s affraid to tell me she’s not interested)
Hi… I know I kinda suprised you when i “asked you out” or whatever… I just wanted to see if you thought it would be a fun idea since we barely get to talk in school. I’m completely fine with just staying frineds too, It’s just hanging out we’re not holding hands and ending with a kiss lol. Just seeing how it goes. Soo please reply if you still want to do it. I won’t be hurt at all if you say “no”. I just thought it be a fun idea since we seem to “connect” well and our conversations always seem to go well. .
(This reply takes her five seconds so I know she’s getting the messages/calls)
heyy! yea we shud do the iceaskating thing,,i did it a long time ago i hope i dont fall lol. what r the places tho? i know one in ballston but its kinda far .
I think there’s one in Anandale right by lifetime fitness, I’ll steal my Mom’s GPS, haha. What time’s good for you I can pick you up anytime. I’ll need your house number too. .
ohh aigt we’ll look for one thenn, i cant tmrw cause we r gonna have relatives over so i guess we can do it like this week sometime.
Avoids me. Avoids me. Avoids me.
Ramesh Klinkert answers:
Stop talking to her for awhile give it a week or two and if she doesnt hit you up first after the two weeks chat her again but dont bring up her avoiding you or the date,act like it never happened.play hard to get a little
How should I ask a sporty guy out if I don’t know if he still likes someone?
Well, I know this guy at school and I know him since the beginning of the 8th grade year. We write to each other a lot in Facebook. So, recently he started talking to me face to face in my Physical Fitness class. But, I always get to nervous around him and I speak to little.
My friends tell me that he likes this other girl he danced with during the winter dance. They are both kind of friends. But, I don’t know if he still likes her, it does not seem like it to me. My friends tell me I need to ask him out for the next dance. I promised them. His birthday is one day before the dance.
He is really nice to me and he approches me first to talk to me.By the way, he is very sporty!:) I have a huge crush on him!
What do I need to so to ask him out?
How do I know if he does not like anyone else?
How do I know if he likes me?
Ramesh Klinkert answers:
Act casual around him and go ‘So, you’re going to the dance huh? I bet ____ must be pretty excited!’ Than you’ll immediatly know whether he’s going with her. If he says he is, well… Tough luck hun
If he says his not, than ask him, ‘well… Uh… What do you say, we go together? Would you like that?”
Girls help! Can I be a model?
I’m 5’8″ and my measurements are 33″24″34″.
Ramesh Klinkert answers:
Modelling is based on the visual. No-one can tell if you have model potential on such a brief description only. However, if you are interested in giving it a you can apply to be signed to an agency. Search online for ‘Model Agencies (followed by the area you want to search). Apply by attending open calls, direct by email to agency offices, or by use of the online application forms found on the agencies` websites, When applying the agencies require head & shoulder shots & full length body images, both front facing & side shots. Wear a fitted plain T shirt & fitted jeans. No make-up & hair off the face. Be aware that agencies reject up to 98% of applicants & those that do get signed are not guaranteed work.
Under 18s need written parental permission to model & adult chaperones to all photoshoots, agency interviews & casting calls. Parents must ensure work is within government guidelines with regard to hours, pay etc. If applicable a youth work permit will be needed. The law states that only parents can make model agency applications on behalf of anyone under the age of 18.
The only measurement criteria in modelling are for Runway Modelling – adult females 34″-24″-34″ & 5’8-5’11″. Weight is not important but models must be toned with a healthy BMI.
Other modelling genres do not have measurement criteria. Modelling genres are :
(All ages) Fitness, Runway, Catalogue, Fashion, Print, Magazine, Advertising, Promotional, Plus Size, Character, Commercial, Editorial, Parts Modelling, Hair, Photographic.
(All ages but under 18s – catalogue style only. Over 18s only for provocative images) Swimwear, Lingerie, Underwear.
(Over 18s only) Alternative, Gothic, Topless, Nude: Glamour nude, Playboy Nude, Concealed Nude, Implied Nude, Art Nude, UK Magazine, US magazine, Continental, Hardcore, Fetish
Portfolios should include images in the model`s chosen genres. Both professional un-edited & clear amateur shots are acceptable. Use images from several photographers. You will need permission from the photographer to include his/her images in your portfolio as they own the copyright. Some photographers work TFP/TFCD i.e neither model & photographer are paid but both get to use the images in their portfolios. Some photographers charge for their work-ensure that the price they quote is all inclusive. Be wary of portfolio studios as often the price does not include the images, only the studio time & the photographer. Some portfolio studios will give the hard sell to entice their customers to pay extortionate prices for poor quality images. For further portfolio information use this link http://uk.answers.yahoo.com/question/ind…
Beware, 3 out of 4 agencies are scams. The quickest, but not exclusive, check is to google the name of the agency followed by the word ‘scam’ or ‘review’ & to read the results. Be aware that where there are negative reviews scam agencies often write bogus positive reviews. The link here will take you to further information on how to avoid the scams : http://uk.answers.yahoo.com/question/ind…
Genuine agencies receive 1000s of applications direct to their offices & have no need to scout or advertise anywhere on the internet INCLUDING Facebook, FaceParty, Gumtree, Google Ads, YahooAds. To make this clear, when making an internet search relating to modelling ALL the modelling adverts on the right of the screen & in the pink or blue boxes at the top of the results list are ALL scams.
Avoid modelling schools, their remit is to make themselves money not to make models. They accept anybody willing to pay their high fees but give no guarantee of your being accepted by an agency. You are making them money – they won`t pass you on to make money for someone else. You are better off applying to the agencies & if you are accepted they will give you training for free & you know you are not wasting your time or money.
You can also freelance for paid work. Use model networking sites such as Model Mayhem / Purestorm / OneModelPlace to locate photographers in your area that will pay you to model for them. Modelling is paid pro rata. Hourly rates can be high compared with many other jobs, but there is no guarantee of ongoing work. You`ll need to keep up with your messages, be professional, & keep your own paperwork in order for tax purposes. Photographers have contact details in their own websites that they link to their network site profiles.
Some agencies cover all types of modelling, some a select few & some are exclusive to one style. But what each one will be looking for is
a) the model`s ability to make him or herself and the product they are advertising (whether it be a physical item or an idea) saleable either via the camera or the catwalk.
B) models they can market to their clients. Each agency has it`s own client base , which may be looking for different types of models to the clients of another agency.
How do i convince my mom to let me have a fitness/dance pole in my room?
Ok so I’m fairly thin but I’m really out of shape. I was in cheerleading for a year and i loved it because it taught me to step out of my comfort zone and it was a fun and exciting challenge for me. but now I’m homeschooled and we dont have the money for me to do gymnastics or dance classes and I’ve always been really interested in pole dancing. lol. so i asked my mom and she said if it was only us girls that lived here she wouldnt care. so i told her that it would be in my room and i would lock the door when i was doing it and i told her about the poles that u can take down in between the times when ur using them. and she just kinda made a face and walked away lol. and i have the money to buy it myself. so how do i convince her to let me have one?
Ramesh Klinkert answers:
There is nothing wrong with pole dancing/pole fitness. It’s good exercise, and fun. It doesn’t have to be sexual. There’s not many bits of gym equipment you could install in your room and get such a good work out.
Show your Mum websites on pole fitness rather than pole dancing.
Christian Pole Fitness
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